The prestigious journal Psychological Bulletin ignited a storm of controversy by publishing in their July, 1998 issue an article that would, on first blush, appear to be a beacon of hope. The authors conducted a so-called "meta-analysis," a statistical review of the literature on the long-term effects of sexual and physical abuse in childhood, and reached the surprising conclusion that there are few if any lasting ill effects. Here, it appeared, was evidence of the resiliency of the human spirit, a chance that the past would not be prologue.
However, the result has been a discounting of the seriousness of the long-term consequences of the abuse of children, and ammunition for those who do not take seriously those who have been abused and those who treat and advocate for them. Is this a case of the triumph of passion over logic, or mistaken conclusions masquerading as reason? As both a clinician and a researcher, I can understand the heat on both sides of this issue. There are many times when systematic research has challenged prevailing wisdom, to our ultimate benefit, no matter how uncomfortable the process of dispatching cherished beliefs. If it were the case that the ill effects of being sexually abused by a parent or stranger in childhood did not last, and we finally realized it, that would be one thing. At the same time, as a clinician I see and treat individuals who suffer the effects of an abusive childhood: their depression, inappropriate guilt about the abuse, their erosion of self-esteem, mistrust in relationships, and difficulty in enjoying their sexuality. In this case, however, reason does not need to override intuition, because the Rind et al. study is seriously flawed in its assumptions, methods, and conclusions.
It was understandable that Psychological Bulletin would consider publishing an article certain to provoke outrage among clinicians and members of the public who morally deplore sexual exploitation of children. To conclude that there is no emotional damage caused by premature involuntary sexual experience easily invites the inference that is morally excusable. Rind et al. point out toward the end of their article that the absence of proven negative psychological effects does not mean that such activity is morally correct. This is true. Yet they also recommend that a distinction be drawn between consensual and coerced sex with children, which is based upon the fallacious assumption that children can (or should be expected to) make a reasonable decision about having sex with an adult. This assumes that such situation could conceivably be non-coercive. So while sex with children does not have to be emotionally damaging to be wrong, we had better remain clear that it is wrong. The strength of this feeling among most clinicians and the general public is underscored by the fact that the House of Representatives took the unprecedented step of passing a resolution condemning the Rind et al. article by unanimous vote.
We have statutory rape laws in all states declaring that sex with a minor amounts to rape, whether the child thought they were consenting or not. Our sexual harassment laws protect adults in similar ways, because we recognize that consent to sexual activity cannot be freely withheld in a context in which one adult (e.g. a supervisor at work) has power over another. If that is true for adults, it is surely true in spades for children, who have far less power, experience, independence, and ability to even understand what sexual activity is.
One of my patients, a successful businesswoman in her fifties, was discussing her memory of her father's first sexual advance toward her, when she was a teenager. She recounted a new discovery about an old hurl: "I realize that it wasn't just what he did to me physically. At that moment I lost my father. He was no longer a person to love and protect me. was there to satisfy him." It is terribly damaging to experience the betrayal that comes with discovering that someone who is supposed to put you above all else is subordinating your needs to theirs. This has been termed "betrayal trauma," by University of Oregon psychologist Jennifer Freyd, who notes that such a situation forces children to hide their natural reactions because they are by definition ambivalent. They want their parents to love them, and depend upon them for their survival. Thus they have to "get along," even when the cost of doing so is putting up with sexual and physical exploitation. This sets up relationship patterns that are laced with understandable mistrustwhy shouldn't anyone else who seems to care about me have a hidden agenda?
Furthermore, most trauma victims blame themselves inappropriately for situations over which they had no control. Oddly, it is less painful to think you brought a tragedy upon yourself than to face your vulnerability to mistreatment. Many rape victims blame themselves for not somehow having foreseen that a sudden assault would occur, even when it would not have been possible to do so. To make matters worse, children do not understand independent causation. They are the center of their universes, and understand what happens to them as a natural result of something they have done. Abusers who call what they are doing deserved "punishment" for real or imagined misdeeds reinforce this tendency. They thus emerge not just damaged by the abuse, but feeling that they brought it upon themselves and deserved it. Their only "mistake" was choosing the wrong parents, but they see the situation as a natural product of their misdeeds. It would be stunning indeed if experiences of sexual and physical abuse by a caretaker did not produce anxiety, depression, preoccupation with traumatic experiences, and mistrust in relationships.
I believe that the Psychological Bulletin article should be dismissed not because it is distasteful or morally objectionable, but because it is wrong. It had the appearance but not the essence of good science, the goal of which is to test hypotheses in such a way that they can be proven wrong. This meta-analysis was conducted in such a way that the facts could not speak for themselves, any more than a child can when approached for sex by an adult. There is great beauty in the innocence of childhood, and it deserves our respect. The barrage of violence and sex on television news, in movies, and in print is already invading it enough. Sex with children is morally wrong as well as emotionally and physically damaging, Rind et al. notwithstanding. Reason and common sense do not diverge here. The data could have been allowed to speak for themselves but were not. Statistical abuse has as many bad aftereffects as sexual abuse. We should not tolerate either.
David Spiegel, M.D., is professor and associate chairman, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Stanford University School of Medicine, Stanford, California.
Copyright Transaction Inc. May/Jun 2000