The Head Game of Terror…
In the course of seeking truth and justice for inter-generational relationships, probably the single most complex and troubling group to deal with…is the victim minority.
This demands such a delicate approach…because the pre-existing tension is so strong, it creates an incredibly volatile environment…At times, this alone can make establishing contact and bonding, seem like an insurmountable goal…
…and it is maddening, because you have these honest and good intentions…you mean no harm or ill to those who have honestly been victimized, either by an individual through sexual battery…or by the system which exploits and feeds upon them…
As a child lover, “you” mean them no harm…but, so many of them are blind to this…
…They hold onto whatever bad they experienced in their own life, and automatically equate “you” with that, immediately upon your arrival.
Of course, a vast many of us never deserved this…We don’t deserve being harshly judged and condemned like this…as we have nothing to do with those kinds of things which happened in their lives, making them feel they were violated…
“We” did not victimize them…
“We” did not turn them into victims…
“We” did not make them who they are today…
…Yet, there remains something inside of the victims head…Something has a hold of them, and it is intertwined with social stigmas and taboo…and a profiteer industry, set on controlling and exploiting them, right along side the child lover…
I have never believed that those who were truly victimized (whether by one individual, or by the social system and it’s sex abuse industry) are the natural enemies of “pedophiles”…nor vise verse…
This is an artificial wall…and artificial battle field, constructed and maintained by the sex abuse industry…
…but how do you crack that shell?…How do you get through, to those most deeply imprisoned by it?…especially when they are conditioned to hostilely reject your attempts at peace?…
The sex abuse industry is powerful, and has spread itself through out many different fields…They hold the false appearance of validity…even when they target and go after good people, who no one in their right mind would attack…
Even when the sex abuse industry is corrupt, they seemingly “can do no wrong”…because they wrap themselves inside the banner, of “protecting children and the vulnerable”…
Even when this goal has turned into a straw man…Even when they say one thing, and do another thing of an entirely different manner…”They can do no wrong”…
…because it is all about perception…
People are all to willing to turn a blind eye and a deaf ear, whenever they are under the perception that the sex abuse industry is doing some wonderful type of work…akin to the public sense surrounding a religious ministry…”It must be good”…
…because they don’t see the bad side of it…They don’t see what is going on, behind the scenes…
People are still all to willing to look past this, whenever the most current, “greatest threat to society” is packaged and sold to the public in such a way, as to make it appear so terrifying…and a dire threat to the very fabric of society, culture…life…
In comparison, the apparent “two evils” pitted against one another seem to make sense, when dressed up and presented in the context mentioned above.
…When will this house of cards fall?…
It’s the “Rambo effect”…
…Now, I like the Rambo movies…but “extreme hostile reaction to an injustice”, does not accurately apply when taking into account child lovers…
Subscribing to this theology is akin to saying…”we should send the army to invade and destroy Sesame Street, because it harbors such characters as Big Bird, Cookie Monster, Bert & Ernie and Elmo”…characters generally loved by children…”but that kind of love and acceptance is dangerous”…
Child lovers, themselves, tend to be far more leaning towards the realm of harmless, gentle and loving.
…Maybe that is a bit to altruistic, because we are complex human beings like anyone else…but in light of the obscene distortions placed upon us, and the gross assaults upon our collective character…it is appropriate to point out and dwell upon the positives…
This helps to counterbalance, combat and heal the damage of extreme hostility, caused by those who profit from this social conflict.
Yes, I speak of loving child/adult sexual relationships positively…glowingly even…without apology…
…because not only are they beautiful at their very basis…not only do they bring great value to the lives of those fortunate enough to be involved in them…not only are they good in the larger picture for society and our culture…
…but now more than ever, these kinds of relationships need people stepping forward, and speaking out about their positive, meaningful, productive and priceless value…
This is part of being human…When you defend child/adult sexuality, you are defending humanity…you are defending love…you are defending human rights…you are defending what it means to be a human being…
How does a message of love and hope, become twisted into one of hate and violence?…
How do people become so psychologically crippled, that they would actually accept the words of those who exploit, over established fact which has been with us through the ages?…
Loving touch is good…Humans need it…We die without it…
Has the loving touch we child lovers bring with us, been sold for the profit of the few?…
…Has it been sold at the detriment of the masses?…
I so badly want to expose this…I so badly want to make the victims (on both sides) see clearly what has been going on all this time…
“Our” fighting is so senseless…”We” should not be fighting…”We” should be embracing and uniting…and going after the very industry which has been inciting and profiting from both of our groups extensive suffering…
It gets more complex still…as this sex abuse industry has spawned so many vicious hate groups…many of them populated and run by true victims…
As a child lover…how do I trust these people?
The reality is, a grave many of these people will never come around to the truth, and they will never let go of their bitterness, hate and rage…and they demand a target to aim their rage at…
…This target ends up being vulnerable sexual minorities, such as ours…and paradoxically, children as well…
…The victims turn into the victimizers…
This is an ugly, ugly cycle of hate and abuse…which I, for one, can not imagine making a personal profit off of…I can not imagine making my living off of it…In my mind, it is unconscionable, to destroy peoples lives…and it is even more monstrous, that it is happening on such a massive scale.
…but make no mistakes…It is not without a sense of loss and anger at the system, when I have to look at victims who have been ravaged and assimilated by politics as usual…and realize there is nothing “I” can do for them…They are to far gone…to consumed…to obsessed…to much filled with rage filled hate and a will to do terrible acts against others…
The sex abuse industry is being allowed to get away with creating all of these lost causes…
…people who could have otherwise helped in the healing and unity of our cultures…people who could have joined in with us, to fight true abuse…
Today, I call the sex abuse industry by exactly the title it has earned for itself…
For inciting the otherwise good to do acts of hostility and torment…
For indoctrinating the naive and vulnerable with terror and hate…
For profiting off of attacking the politically vulnerable, with extreme prejudice…
For pitting social groups against one another…
For destroying the lives of countless millions…
…The sex abuse industry, is a terrorist industry…
The tragedy in all of this, is that they are seen as “virtuous”, and “above all questioning”…”above consequences” even…There is no accountability forced upon the sex abuse industry…and it wont police itself.
This is why our movement is so grass roots, and is taking place amongst people in the public.
I still cant help but be angered and not entirely sure, as to what to do with regards to the victim community…
All of us…both groups…victims and child lovers…we are being pitted against one another…We are being lied to, and told that we can not peacefully co-exist…or that our goals are contrary to each other…
This is a lie…
…We…the countless millions of us…we are all being used as pawns…
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One of the things they don’t realise by screaming victim what they are really saying is that the perpetrator has control of their life they are more powerful than them and they are a nothing (I
know it seems a bit harsh).
The only way to healing is to accept what happened and move on with your life but instead it is taught by the sex abuse industry to become that victim (even if you were not a victim in the first place) that is one of the most disgusting things that I see today the more I open my eyes to the world the more I want to close them.
“I so badly want to expose this…I so badly want to make the victims (on both sides) see clearly what has been going on all this time…”
I hear you I would do anything to have half any hour of live TV to express my opinions even if I lose at least I was trying.
The Sex Abuse Industry really is the inquisition the whiter than white attitude really makes me sick one of the things I’ve noticed is they can’t stop talking about it in the media or in the general public I feel the ‘Industry’ as done a good job of manipulating people they talk about child abuse more than we do.
The rare individual Evil person can destroy a small number of lives but this industry can damage of nation of lives.
Thanks for the post Steve.
There are so many factors contributing to the success of the sex abuse industry, that it is almost impossible to disentangle them.
– Psychotherapists have generated entire careers and livelihoods by jumping on the bandwagon.
– Members of hate groups have an outlet which gives their lives meaning.
– The more they can identify ‘abuse’, the greater the funding available to children’s charities.
– Politicians benefit from having an identifiable bogeyman upon whom to focus societal discontent and increase their control over a populace.
– Post-Cold War intelligence agencies found a new raison d’être.
– Media organizations outdo each other in trying to shock a blasé audience.
When something proves successful, it multiplies, expands, becomes self-perpetuating and self-fulfilling.
The issue which those opposed to the machinations of the investors in the Child Abuse Industry should logically be shouting from the rooftops is a simple one:
The physical act of touching the penis of a 7 year old boy can never be psychologically harmful in itself.
There is nothing special about ‘genitals’ which distinguishes them from any other part of the human body. It is only the cultural-significance attached to genital organs which elevates them to a distinct status.
“Sex crimes” are a fallacy, a misnomer. There can be – and should be – no such thing. ‘Sex’ (physically ‘intimate’ activity) can never be emotionally harmful. The ‘harm’ can only ever arise from an individual’s experience of a particular situation. If a young person enjoys a physical sensation, it cannot be harmful. That person may attach a negative association with a non-painful act if they have been indoctrinated with ideas as to how they should feel about a non-painful act.
I stated above that this is ‘logically’ what those of us opposed to the child abuse industry’s dogma should be focusing on. Clearly, this is not possible. So long as it is in the interests of those in power (and those who influence them) to maintain a position that ‘sex’ is a ‘special’ category of human interaction, they have no reason to halt their propaganda, indoctrination, abuse, misinformation and hatred.
There is no magic solution. Our best approach lies not in attempting to counter the child abuse politicians, charities, law enforcers and psychotherapists, but more generally in addressing young people themselves…exposing the lies and abuse of their parents, teachers and all those in authority. Urge them to reject the dogma of past generations; reject the authority that parents, police and doctors have assumed over them. Encourage them to view the inherent neutrality of ‘sex’ as a simple physical interaction. The only advantage we have is technology, and the fact that young people are far more technologically literate than their parents will ever be. If the human species is in the Information Age, then young people are its leaders, not its slaves.
Thank you for the thoughtful responses. You know, I’ve often felt that the best parts of a post are very much libel to come out in the response section, after the initial expression was placed out there and bounced off of some people.
PiedPiper…Yes, I see it also…and I am so tired of having to look at it…
The truth be told, we are living in a time where the political landscape is based around victim-hood. So much depends upon the constant and continual existence of “wronged victims”, that even people who are not true victims…even people who reject the very label of “victim”, are corralled and herded through “just the right and proper path”, regardless of the situation, or any regards for what is best for the involved.
These are “victims” only by a legal technicality…but, they were never honestly violated, in their every day relations…The only violation occurring, is that of their autonomy at the hands of the legal system…and other assorted groups, standing in the wings.
Laws dealing with stigmatized issues aren’t nearly as natural, intelligent and beneficial as they should be, when they come face to face with real life…and dogmatic ideologies are never anything but destructive.
I also believe in the “letting go” principle, when it comes to personal healing…but, the way these things are dragged out (and often publicly), this becomes nearly impossible.
Current trends seem more focused on amplifying victim-hood, and causing social rage and ignorance to fester till it erupts in many violent ways.
Strato…
That was a beautiful response, and I agree fully.
My reason for writing this post, was in expressing a certain empathy…even a peculiar and not always so obvious (to the general public) bond, with those who are pigeonholed into victim-hood…even with those who were truly victimized, and who are exploited because of it today.
Whether we like it or not, our existences are intertwined and our “fates” linked to each other.
I guess you could say, I was just trying to give a respectful nod in the direction of those being exploited, on the other side of the fence. I’m trying to articulate on one of the worst aspects of this situation, and explain just how complicated it is…and how frustrating…That I’m not prepared to flippantly write these people off…
…but, realistically, I know an olive branch wont be accepted…Not in the bigger picture…The masses are not ready for that yet.
I agree also, that hope rests with the children (doesn’t it always?)…I’ve been wanting to write an essay, directly addressing the young, and in reality, these are the people who most of my writings are actually intended for.
I don’t write for those who persecute us.
As cold as it may have sounded…I’ve said many times before…The best we can hope for from today’s population, is that they will die, and take their hateful prejudice along with them to its own death. It will die, little by little, as the people who religiously push this dogma die off.
We need to combat their religion of vicious malice, with integrity, love and courage. We will play a role in forging a new path, but it is other pioneers who will turn this path into real freedom…step by step, battle by battle…
My only regret is in knowing I will never be there to see true freedom and equality.
Most people of the current day will never be important in any budding movement…That is how it always is…such is the case with most people today, including the ones I address in my post…Hence, I don’t place any vital expectations upon them in relation to our cause…
I just wanted to get something off of my chest…express this peculiar human connection…
Steve – as always, I never fail to be impressed by your empathy for the human condition. So far as your regret that you ‘will never be there to see true freedom and equality’, cynical old me doesn’t believe that such a state will ever arise…I’m afraid I have no faith in the human species.
Perhaps it wasn’t always thus; humankind did once exist on this planet – for many thousands of millennia – in a state of freedom and advanced consciousness. Unfortunately the advent of agriculture, and consequently ‘The State’, put paid to this. And I acknowledge that, so far as our planet is concerned, there can be no ‘turning back of the clock’. Conceivably, if a small number of humans were able to ‘begin again’, on another planet, they could achieve this state. This is all conjecture, of course. My point really was that you shouldn’t regret what cannot be; your existence today is as crucial as at any other time.
In due course, I would of course love to read an essay of yours addressing children directly. I know that Raven also has some goals in that direction, and I sincerely think that this will become our best method of positively benefiting some humans. Complete change is, no doubt, impracticable; but even to help one young person overcome his enforced bondage would be reward in itself.
Strato…
…”cynical old me doesn’t believe that such a state will ever arise…I’m afraid I have no faith in the human species”…
I understand this…and I even talk about this very topic, in a short piece I just wrote (convenient, huh?…I’ll post it in a bit).
In no small part, my optimism acts as a deflection, against the natural, inborn tendencies of us humans out of sheer frustration, to strangle the heck out of those who are driving us to the brink of insanity…
Instead of walking up to that ignorant, short sighted, loud mouthed bigot…who is calling me every filthy name in the book, is to hateful to even budge and inch [even when “I” am clearly in the right], and who has this incredibly annoying habit of ignoring the facts and defaulting to “it’s a useless risk, and risks aren’t acceptable” load of tripe [while trying to imply that “I” am the only “selfish bastard” to benefit from it]…and swatting their smug self up side the head with a frying pan, or other pain inflicting object available…
…I do the unexpected…smile back at them, and politely preserve my own class and dignity [credibility, also], by becoming the one person involved in the exchange who clearly knows what he is talking about…and running circles around the ignorant hot heads…
Honestly, I think many of them hate us [and get all the more angry] because we expose their ignorance, and it is embarasing for them to be bested by a pedophile.
I call this poetic revenge… 🙂
You might think of it as fantasy…but, I infuse myself into this idea, because it is a positive reaction, to all the insanity that we are forced to face and deal with.
If I don’t have this…then what do I have?…
…The really scary question is…what happens the day when we don’t even have “this”?…
You can think of me as delusional if you like [I’ll give “you” permission.]…but, they were repealing some laws, and replacing them with more progressive ones in the Netherlands only…what?…a decade ago?…For a time, it was at least better to be a boylover there.
I don’t see it as impossible…but we do need the right mixture of social trends, to make it possible.
…and, I agree with you…even if we only help “one” person, it is still worthwhile. When I first arrived online, that used to be my sole focus…to respond to individual people and try to help “them”.
I think I had a mid-life crisis, or just everything got to me, and came to a head [The past three years have been a complicated and very stressful time for me]…and my return has largely been my own version of, “coming out of the corner swinging [without the gloves]”…
I’m just getting up to speed with the backlog, so thanks, Steve. This article, like others before it was centred and flowed from start to end.
The point about the exploitative nature of that which you term the “sex abuse industry” was a major one. I can imagine a future situation where its victims (both child lovers and mentally traumatised ex-children) can come to some sort of agreement in that they should combat the problematisers together.
Surely a major part of this “pitting one against the other” is the abuse of language, especially regarding the terms abuse, victim and pedophile, which have become all-encompassing and unquestionable monstrousities with a set “narrative” relation to one another which defies a reality that for social and legal reasons dare not speak of itself.
PiedPiper:
“The Sex Abuse Industry really is the inquisition the whiter than white attitude really makes me sick”.
We have a situation where knowingly or not the indoctrinated are playing the victims and the tyrants are playing the saviours. Sometimes the veneered exploitation can be sickening, and any accompanying good meaning only serves to make one more dismayed at the situation.
Strato:
“Post-Cold War intelligence agencies found a new raison d’être”.
A lot of the jargon surrounding the issue of child protection matches well with that of war-strategy. Having written a post on Jim Gamble, you probably know a lot about this already.
Maybe this is part of risk culture as a whole; where there is blame, there is a war, and where there is personal complacency, there is an interventionist “enlightenment”.
““Sex crimes” are a fallacy, a misnomer. There can be – and should be – no such thing”.
Far too often, the proposed solution for social “problems” including crime, is to redefine events as to create crime, abuse, victims etc, and all the suffering that goes with it.